Asimpforallthingsfictional - Certified Weirdo

Haven't posted in forever and this is really random but yesterday I watched the fnaf movie and it was great but I noticed 2 things that I want to try to explain without spoiling possibly: first, in the beginning of the movie, there's a scene that takes place in a classroom. On the chalkboard of the classroom, there are "spelling words". One of them is puppet 🙃

And in the end credits if you wait and don't leave you'll find 2 cool things that were added

I truly believe most people who still use tumblr are neurodivergent. Where else are we going to hyperfixate on things?

i know vitamin c basically neutralizes adhd meds but lemonade good

no offense but nonbinary ppl can have boobs…..nonbinary ppl can have long hair, wear dresses, use makeup, have beards, be tall or short, muscular, thin, or curvy……there is literally no wrong way to be nonbinary 

Well, fuck I was wrong

They expired sometime around noon :/

Also check this shit out

Either my Hulu is broken or they GOT RID OF WAKKO'S WISH EVEN THOUGH THERE WAS NO EXPIRED WARNING ON IT CUZ I SEARCHED FOR IT AND I CANNOT FIND IT

Look I swear there wasn't a warning:

Or I'm just stupid who knows 🤷‍♀️ but anyways this sucks

Tuesday is practically over 😔 Hulu why would you bring me pain

Everybody cross your fingers so that all of these shows will hopefully be back on Hulu sometime in the near future

I'm not sure if the shows will expire as soon as it hits 12 am and is therefore Wednesday or if they'll expire at like 11:59 pm on Wednesday, but either way this sucks 👎👎👎

I'll see how it works soon because it is 11:58 pm right now when I'm posting this so yeah

demisexuality can be so hard to explain because it’s misconstrued as you just wanting to trust the other person before you have sex with them. and I get why the misconception happens. But demisexuality differs in that there isn’t sexual attraction at all before that bond forms.

I think what people have difficulty with is the idea that there are people out there who aren’t experiencing sexual attraction at all until a certain point, if ever, because we’re taught that sex, libido, and sexual attraction are all the same, both in and out of queer spaces.

And when you’re learning about asexuality and demisexuality, you may learn that people have romantic and aesthetic attraction separately from sexual attraction, and that sexual and romantic attraction aren’t necessarily intertwined, and that may challenge your worldview on sex.

But “I trust you enough to have sex with you” isn’t the same as “I’m not sexually attracted to anyone but you, and the reason I’m sexually attracted to you now after we’ve established this close bond is literally because of the bond of trust we’ve been able to form”.

It’s easy to see how those can get conflated. On the surface, if you’re unfamiliar with asexuality, they may sound the same. But it’s important to acknowledge the difference between “no sex until I trust you” and “no sexual attraction unless I trust you and maybe not even then”.

Demisexuality is housed under the asexuality spectrum. It’s part of the gray area between being allosexual and asexual. It’s part of why the definition for asexuality includes “little to no sexual attraction”. It’s a mostly asexual experience with an asterisk.

While being demisexual may have impacts on a persons sexual activity, even demisexuals have a varied relationship to the act of participating in sex. Libido and sexual attraction are not always intertwined either, which can make telling the difference tricky.

I think of sexual attraction as libido that has a compass. Since I rarely ever experience sexual attraction, but do have libido, it’s noticeable for me when that libido actually has a direction to go, rather than being a floating, nebulous, independent thing.

Remember, not everyone is demisexual. There’s a difference between waiting to have sex and not having sexual attraction at all until a certain point. This also inherently ties demisexuality to romantic attraction and relationships, and not all demisexuals are alloromantic.

But if you read what demisexuality is and think “everyone is like that” or “that’s just being a woman”, you either 1) are demisexual 2) don’t understand what it is or 3) both. And it’s okay to not know. Just as long as you’re willing to try to learn.

😭😭😭